Hey there, beautiful people! Today, I want to share a powerful concept that has resonated with me deeply lately, inspired by Dan Sullivan’s incredible book “The Gap and the Gain”. It’s all about shifting our focus from what’s lacking in our lives or how far we still have to go to reach our goal to what we’ve already gained and accomplished.
Let’s talk about the Gap first. It’s that sneaky little voice constantly reminding us of what we haven’t achieved yet, the goals we haven’t reached, and the dreams still unfulfilled. It’s so easy to get caught up in comparing ourselves to others or to some idealized version of success, feeling like we’re always falling short.
But here’s the thing: obsessing over the Gap can be toxic. It drains our energy, erodes our self-confidence, and robs us of the joy of the present moment. It’s like running on a treadmill, always striving but never feeling satisfied. In the book, Dan uses the analogy of walking toward the horizon. No matter how far you go, the horizon is always out of reach.
Now, let’s shift our perspective to the Gain. The Gain is all about recognizing and celebrating our progress, no matter how small. It’s about acknowledging our victories, big and small, and expressing gratitude for our journey.
When we focus on the Gain, we empower ourselves to keep moving forward with confidence and optimism. We start to see obstacles as opportunities for growth, setbacks as stepping stones toward success, and challenges as chances to learn and evolve.
So, my dear friends, let’s commit together: spend less time dwelling on the Gap and more time basking in the glory of our Gain. Let’s celebrate our victories, no matter how small, and cultivate a mindset of abundance and gratitude.
Remember, life is a journey, not a destination. Let’s embrace every step of the way and savor the beauty of the present moment. Together, we can turn our dreams into reality and create a life filled with joy, purpose, and fulfillment.
Where have you been making gains in your life lately?
Coach Derek
