Yeah, I said it and I meant it. If you’ve been holding yourself back “for the sake of others”, you’re not just cheating yourself. You’re cheating most other people as well.
Let’s hash the idea of reaching for our peak expression and why not striving towards it can be a selfish act. You might be wondering, how can not working towards our best selves be selfish? Well, let’s dive into it.
Each of us has unique talents, passions, and potential waiting to be unleashed. When we hold back from pursuing our peak expression—whether it’s in our careers, relationships, hobbies, or personal growth—we’re not only denying ourselves the opportunity to live a fulfilling life, but we’re also depriving the world of our gifts.
Think about it: when you embrace your true potential and strive towards your peak expression, you inspire those around you to do the same. Your passion, dedication, and authenticity become a beacon of light, showing others what’s possible when we dare to dream big and work hard.
When I show up as the best version of myself I am showing up as a better husband, father, employer, leader, friend, coach, etc… Taking a little time to improve myself allows those in my circle of influence to get the best of me also. It’s one of least selfish things I could do.
On the flip side, when we settle for mediocrity or stay stuck in our comfort zones, we’re essentially saying, “I’m okay with playing small, even if it means not making a meaningful impact on the world.” That, my friends, is the epitome of selfishness.
Ask yourself, if you improved your physical health would it help you serve others better? Could you eat better? If you got better sleep, would you be more impactful? If you learned to plan your day, would that help you prioritize and execute more meaningful tasks? If you read more instead of binging Netflix endlessly could you learn something that helps you grow? If you carried less debt load would that free you up to do more of the things that fill your cup? That little temper you have…how’s that serving others? You get the idea.
So, let’s make a pact to break free from the chains of complacency and self-doubt. Let’s commit to unleashing our full potential and striving towards our peak expression, not just for ourselves but for the betterment of humanity.
Remember, the world needs your unique talents and contributions. Don’t let fear or doubt hold you back from shining brightly. You are made for greatness!!! Embrace your greatness, pursue your passions relentlessly, and watch as you create a ripple effect of positivity and inspiration wherever you go.
Together, let’s rise to our highest selves and make the world a better place, one bold step at a time.
Hold the standard, friends.
Coach Derek
